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HEY HEARTUN~ I love my SL boyfriend, and sex with him was great from the start. But a while back when we were both drunk and fooling around, I popped over to the Marketplace and bought a cock and surprised him by wearing it. I stupidly told him I wanted to ‘turn it around on him’ and he said ok — and it was hot! But now he likes me to strap on this cock all the time when we fool around, and it’s starting to freak me out. Is he gay? ~ PANDORA’S BOX

DEAR PANDORA ~ No, he’s not gay. He just likes it when you strap on a cock and fuck him up the ass. 

There’s nothing wrong with that. The problem here is that while ‘pegginng’ may have been fun and games once, or once in a while, FOR YOU — it appears to be a kink meal that he wants a steady diet of. Let him know that you don’t want to do that all the time. Tell him that you’d like to get fucked with his cock once in a while. Be careful, because he obviously likes having you shove your cock up his ass — and since he’s straight he knows its freaky. Don’t show your intolerance or you’ll embarrass him.

On the other hand, if this kind of play is something you really don’t want to do at all your long-term prospects with this guy don’t look great. While his appetite may ebb and flow with time, if you ain’t fucking him up the ass once in a while he will eventually find someone who will. ~HEARTUN BREAKER